grief and loss author
Vickie Menendez
Crystal’s Butterfly Effect is a story about how one mother turned the unimaginable loss of four children into a journey of profound transformation and healing. Through the perspectives gained from her own experiences, she found a guiding light that led her to hope, resilience, and inner peace. As the first book in the Mother of All Memoirs series, it offers a deeply moving exploration of the common challenges a mother faces amid tragic loss—and reveals powerful pathways to rise above life’s greatest difficulties. This memoir is not only a story of heartbreak but also a beacon of hope and inspiration for anyone seeking healing after profound loss.
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Vickie Menendez
Mother, Wife, Author, transformational coach
My Story
My journey as a Transformational Coach was born from deep personal trauma and loss, including the death of children in 1980, 2017, and 2 only 12 days apart in 2023. Every trauma and wound surfaced, calling for attention. This strong urge to embrace healing guided me into direct alignment with my life’s purpose to serve others. Integrating 35 years of experience in self-care, wellness, and design, I developed a holistic approach to healing that fosters internal and external transformations, creating a ripple effect of positivity and love that is felt by everyone you come in contact with. When we heal, others heal as well.
My Books
Crystal's Butterfly Effect
Born from the profound experience of losing my children, Crystal’s Butterfly Effect is not just a series of books; it’s a movement. A space dedicated to those who seek solace, guidance, and the courage to reimagine life beyond the deepest losses. Through my story and the stories of others, we embrace the delicate dance of grief and the gentle unfolding of new beginnings.
Compass To The Soul - Companion Guide
A digital guide filled with tools and insights on Nutrition, Chakras, Meridians, the Vagus Nerve, Meditation, and much more. This companion is designed to support you as you navigate your own healing journey. Pre-Order Crystal’s Butterfly Effect to receive your free copy of Compass to The Soul for a limited time!
Audiobook Coming Soon
Experience The Mother of All Memoirs: Crystal’s Butterfly Effect like never before with the upcoming Audible version. Let my voice guide you through the deeply personal stories of love, loss, and healing, as if we’re sharing this journey together. Whether you’re driving, walking, or simply resting, let the words surround you, bringing comfort, connection, and inspiration straight to your heart. Tune in to the audible experience, where each chapter becomes a sacred space, and my story becomes part of yours.
Upcoming Readings & Events
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April 24th-30th
East Coast Tour
Washington DC, Philladelphia, New York, Boston, Portland Maine
Book Signing
Zoom sessions will be available. More details coming soon…
March 28th-April 3rd
West Coast Tour
San Diego, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Portland Oregon
Book Signing
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Launch party
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Book Signing
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The Mother of All Memoirs is a profoundly moving and transformative book. It captures the raw, heart-wrenching journey of a mother who has faced unimaginable loss and turned her pain into a powerful beacon of hope and healing for others. This memoir is not just a collection of stories; it is a guide to the soul, offering deep insights and practical wisdom on healing. The author’s courage and resilience shine through every page, inspiring readers to embrace their own healing journey. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking comfort, strength, and guidance in the face of life’s greatest challenges.
- JACK CANFIELD, CO-AUTHOR OF THE CHICKEN SOUP FOR THE SOUL® SERIES AND THE SUCCESS PRINCIPLES™
“The Mother of All Memoirs: Crystal's Butterfly Effect is a profound journey through the sacred spaces of unimaginable loss and transformative healing. When the author first embarked on this journey, I had the honor and privilege of interviewing her on my channel, which revolves around Joseph Campbell's quote, "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek." Vickie bravely ventured into her cave, not only discovering her own jewels but creating a precious roadmap for healing for all of us. I have since been deeply moved and stunned by her remarkable resilience, authenticity, processing of such a huge loss, and fearless ability to love. The Mother of All Memoirs is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of love. Each page invites readers into a sacred space where grief meets grace, offering a beacon of hope for those navigating their own paths of sorrow. We are reminded that from the deepest pain can emerge the most beautiful transformations, much like a butterfly's flight. This memoir is a heartfelt guide for anyone seeking solace and strength in the face of loss."
- GAIA CALCATERRA BFA, MBA, FOUNDER LIFEOFGAIA.COM
Vickie Menendez
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